9 Signs You’re Actually Going Through Menopause

6. Brain Fog

Picture Tom, 52, a manager, blanking on her colleague’s name mid-meeting, mind fuzzy like a staticky radio. Simple tasks felt like wading through mud. Estrogen supports brain function, and its decline clouds cognition in 60% of women, per Harvard Health. You might blame aging—understandable. But if focus slips daily, it’s a sign. Ever feel bone-tired for no reason?

5. Fatigue

Rachel, 48, a mom, dragged through days, feeling like her energy was siphoned off, heavy as wet sand. Sleep didn’t recharge her. Hormonal shifts and night sweats sap energy in 65% of menopausal women, per Cleveland Clinic. Thinking it’s just a busy life? If rest fails, dig deeper. The next sign might show in your mirror.

4. Weight Gain

Ever notice your jeans pinching despite no diet change? Emily, 51, a baker, saw her waistline creep, especially around her belly, like dough rising. Slower metabolism from low estrogen affects 50% of women, per Mayo Clinic. The stubborn fat, soft yet firm, frustrates. Blaming holiday treats? If it’s persistent, it’s menopause. The next one’s more intimate.

  • Belly focus: Weight gathers around midsection.
  • Hard to lose: Diet and exercise less effective.
  • Hormonal link: Estrogen drop slows metabolism.

3. Vaginal Dryness

Diane, 46, winced during intimacy, the sharp discomfort like sandpaper where softness once was. Lower estrogen thins vaginal tissues, causing dryness in 40% of women, per NIH. It’s not just physical—emotions sting too. You might think, “Just aging?” Lubricants help, but check it. Sleep troubles coming up.